What is Self-Care?
Let's get one thing straight: self-care is not synonymous with self-indulgence or selfishness. Self-care is the practice of taking an active role in protecting your well-being and happiness. It's knowing that without taking care of yourself, you can't be healthy, do your job, help and care for others, and do all the things you need to or want to accomplish in a day. Nearly 80% of individuals claim they've engaged in more self-care routines since the start of the pandemic [1].
Self-care is about making choices that enhance your health and complete self. It encompasses everything from physical fitness and nutrition to mental health practices and relaxation techniques. At its core, self-care is crucial because it maintains a healthy relationship with yourself, boosts your physical and emotional health, and reflects outwardly in your interactions with others.
Why Exercise and a Good Diet Matter in Self-Care
Moving more and eating better are not just acts of physical care; they're investments in your mental and emotional health.The Impact of Exercise
Exercise isn't about weight management or building muscle; it's a cornerstone of self-care that benefits the mind as much as the body. Regular physical activity can reduce symptoms of anxiety and depression, enhancing mood, and elevate energy levels [2]. It's a powerful stress reliever that helps clear the mind and encourages a more positive outlook on life.The Role of Nutrition in Self-Care
Similarly, a balanced diet plays a pivotal role in self-care. What we consume can affect not only our physical health but our mental state as well. Nutrient-rich foods provide the energy needed for our daily activities and support mood regulation. Eating a diet full of fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains can help combat feelings of lethargy and depression, making it an essential element of a holistic self-care routine [3].Tips to Motivate and Maintain a Healthier Lifestyle
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Incorporating these practices into your self-care routine doesn't require monumental changes. Small, consistent efforts can lead to significant benefits. Here are a few tips to motivate and maintain a healthier lifestyle:
- Set Realistic Goals: Start with achievable objectives. Something small like walk for 10-minutes after dinner or eat one serving of vegetables to each meal.
- Find Joy in Movement: Choose activities you love. It could be dancing, walking, or playing a sport, to make exercise an enjoyable part of your day.
- Plan Your Meals: Take time each week to plan and prepare healthy meals. This avoids the temptation of less nutritious options.
- Listen to Your Body: Pay attention to how different foods and exercise routines make you feel and adjust accordingly.
- Seek Community Support: Connect with friends, family, or online communities who share your health and wellness goals for encouragement and accountability.
The Journey of Self-Discovery Through Self-Care
Self-care is a deeply personal journey, one that unfolds differently for each of us. It's not a one-size-fits-all checklist but a unique exploration of what makes you feel balanced, healthy, and fulfilled. While the path you take may vary, the destination is the same: a deeper understanding of yourself and a life lived with intention. Here, we share two distinct journeys—Dom's and Maggie's—highlighting the diverse ways self-care can lead to profound self-discovery.Dom’s Journey
Through my troughs of mental health struggles, exercise and nutrition were at the bottom of my priority list. My relationship with food has always been my my greatest coping mechanism. Even in my early childhood, I found solace in ice cream during turbulent times. This pattern persisted into adulthood. Stress-laden weeks were synonymous with a shopping cart full of junk food. And with depression crept in, the idea of moving my body felt like an insurmountable task.But, the science nerd in me (I have bachelor's in biomedical science) knew the undeniable truth. Exercise and a balanced diet are not just about managing weight. They're about fortifying your body, enhancing your immune system, warding off chronic diseases, and fueling the dreams that extend far beyond the present moment. Nutrition, with its plethora of phytonutrients, vitamins, and minerals, plays a crucial role in combating free radicals, lowering cortisol (your stress hormone) and reducing the risk of chronic health issues.
My senior year of university tested my limits. Depression made the thought of diet and exercise laughable. Ironically, I had committed to working with a personal trainer around the same time. The thought of canceling never crossed my mind, not because of a sudden burst of motivation, but because my academic discipline wouldn't allow it. What I didn't anticipate was the profound impact this decision would have.
Within 90 days, the changes were not just visible but deeply felt. Training five days a week, coupled with maintaining a food diary for nutritional adjustments, transformed not just my body but my mind. My stress levels plummeted, providing a much-needed outlet for pent-up emotions. My mood lightened, and for the first time in a long while, I felt like myself again.
Maggie’s Journey
For most of my life, my jobs kept me on my feet, constantly moving. Yet, transitioning to self-employment brought an unexpected change—more time sitting than moving. Growing up, exercise wasn't presented as a tool for stress relief or a daily necessity for health; it was a concept I only embraced as an adult, thanks to the encouragement of active friends.Integrating regular exercise and a nutritious diet into my routine has profoundly impacted my well-being, significantly easing my chronic pain and anxiety. It's an ongoing challenge to maintain this balance, but the rewards are undeniable. When I'm consistent with my physical activity, I not only feel better but also feel more connected to and aware of my body's needs. It's like rediscovering comfort in my own skin, a journey of continual learning and adaptation to what truly makes me thrive.
References
[1] Lindner, J. (2023, December 20). Self care statistics: Market report & data • gitnux. GITNUX. https://gitnux.org/self-care-statistics/[2] Sharma, A., Madaan, V., & Petty, F. D. (2006). Exercise for mental health. Primary care companion to the Journal of clinical psychiatry, 8(2), 106. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1470658/
[3] Hung, S. T., Cheng, Y. C., Wu, C. C., & Su, C. H. (2023). Examining Physical Wellness as the Fundamental Element for Achieving Holistic Well-Being in Older Persons: Review of Literature and Practical Application in Daily Life. Journal of multidisciplinary healthcare, 16, 1889–1904. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10329914/